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A wartime romance that risked the wrath of families



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Published Date: 06 November 2008
THEY risked the wrath of their families, just by falling in love.
Former SS Stormtrooper Rudi Franzel and Betty Young initially kept their friendship a secret after meeting at Upperkeith Farm, in Humbie, East Lothian.

But the relationship between the PoW and the local farm girl blossomed and this week they cel
ebrated their diamond wedding anniversary.

They met a few years after the end of the Second World War, when Rudi had been billeted to pick potatoes at a farm close to the Gosford PoW camp near Aberlady.

Betty, now 81, had been sent to the farm by her mother to collect vegetables and Rudi helped her carry the heavy basket.

The pair got chatting and when Rudi asked Betty for her address she admits she was too scared of her mother's reaction to their friendship so gave him the address of a friend.

She said: "I had taken the bus to pick some tatties for my parents, but the baskets I had for them were so large and heavy that I was having trouble. The next thing I knew this huge, very handsome, man came over to help.

"He spoke only a little English and I knew right away that he must be one of the prisoners of war that worked on the farm. But he was so kind."

Betty secretly corresponded with Rudi for months and he made their relationship public that Christmas when he arrived at the doorstep of Betty's home with a Christmas tree, a crate of potatoes and some rationed tea for her mother.

The gesture helped him win over the family, and in 1948 – while Rudi was still officially a prisoner of war – they were granted special permission to marry.

"When my parents finally met Rudi, they made him feel very welcome," said Betty. "My dad had been in the Royal Scots and he respected Rudi as a fellow soldier. My mum had more to say on the subject, but she warmed to him."

Former farm worker Rudi, now aged 83, was born in the former German occupied Sudetenland, and arrived in Scotland in April 1946. He served in the 12th Panzer Division Hitlerjugend (Hitler Youth) of the Waffen SS and was captured on April 23, 1945.

He said: "I can still picture Betty that first time I saw her, struggling with the baskets of potatoes. I went to help her and we hit it off. I quickly realised this was the girl for me."

The couple, who live in Haddington, celebrated their anniversary with a family party this week at Whitekirk Golf Club, East Lothian, and even received a card from the Queen. They have one child, Effie, aged 47.

Betty said: "Our secret to a happy marriage is never to let the sun go down on an argument. That, and the fact Rudi has brought me breakfast in bed every morning."





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  • Last Updated: 06 November 2008 10:58 AM
  • Source: Edinburgh Evening News
  • Location: Edinburgh
  • Related Topics: East Lothian
 
1

alex paterson,

edinburgh 06/11/2008 12:37:22
Well said Betty,it must have been very hard to carry on this relationship.
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06/11/2008 14:22:29
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Nic83,

06/11/2008 14:23:46
Nice to read something cheery for a change! Best wishes to them.
4

Andrew,

06/11/2008 17:04:24
Love conquers all and wins to amass 60 glorious years (of breakfast in bed, I like that bit)!
5

Lobeydoser,

06/11/2008 18:11:55
"He served in the 12th Panzer Division Hitlerjugend (Hitler Youth) of the Waffen SS and was captured on April 23, 1945".

As part of the Waffen-SS, it was found to be a criminal organization by the Nuremberg Trials. The acknowledged war crimes of the division happened in Normandy where over 100 Canadian soldiers were executed by their captors in the 12th SS "Hitlerjugend" Panzergrenadier Division. Their murders, and the consequent search for justice, is well documented. See:
Conduct Unbecoming: The Story of the Murder of Canadian Prisoners of War in Normandy by Howard Margolian (ISBN 0-8020-8360-9) (University of Toronto Press, 1998)
6

Ms Doreen in the Cyber Shebeen,

06/11/2008 23:19:54
It sounds like this man was a mere foot soldier....orders refused would have meant a bullet in his own head...lets not forget the war crimes that our own troops carried out...on the orders of superior officers...its a sht world but these people found love and forgot hate....thats something...
7

Lobeydoser,

07/11/2008 00:42:23
The 12th Panzer Division Hitlerjugend (Hitler Youth) of the Waffen SS were anything but "mere foot soldiers".
All symbolically born in 1926 and volunteers, specially selected from the Hitler Youth. They were committed to the Nazi cause from their very first battles in Normandy.
The thought of "orders refused" never crossed their minds.

8

daveserviceman,

edinburgh 07/11/2008 01:56:39
Too many people on here dwelling in the past, the past should be left where it is in the past it is now time to move on and look to the future
9

Plantagenet,

07/11/2008 10:30:00
Rudi was obviously an impressionable young man like many other young Germans at that time who got caught up in the 'Master Race' nonsense spewed by Hitler. How many of us all over the world have been carried away by the charisma of our leaders, JFK, Blair, Martin Luther King and now Obama, history will be the judge of our actions, so don't blast Rudi, it could have been any of us.
10

James Donald,

Newbridge 12/11/2008 12:57:22
#7 Lobeydoser - "All symbolically born in 1926 and volunteers, specially selected from the Hitler Youth" -Many of the initial intake of "volunteers" (some were, in fact, forced to volunteer) were only 17 years old and from the Hitler Youth (membership of the Hitler Youth was compusary for all German youth from the age of 10) but the cadre of the Division were older.
As to atrocities, the Canadians now admit themselves that they committed atrocities in Normandy. There is as much "evidence" to convict the Canadian General General A.G.L. McNaughton in one statement he made to his officers in Normandy as there was to condemn Kurt Meyer to death: 'This is our opportunity to show the stuff we are made of. Its going to be a sticky business. You must be ruthless and in dealing with refugees remember the Fifth Column. Tell the men we are not particularly interested in prisoners.'. From the Canadian Film documentary "The Valour and the Horror - Normandy".

11

Tom Conway,

20/11/2008 10:50:36
The best of luck to both of you,Rudi and Betty.
I remember one incident in Edinburgh when an Italian Ice Cream shop was broken into and vandalized when Italy joined with Germany in the war, this despite the fact the owner was serving with the eigth army in Africa, and the Union Jack outside the shop, and a photo of the owner, in uniform, displayed in the window.

 

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